a caller asked about my limits… this got me thinking… limits could be divided into real life limits and phone limits, hard limits and soft limits. when on the phone, i do what i am told to do (when possible) so am not sure my phone limits and my real life limits are seperate. sometimes on phone calls we talk about…. imagine if… then i sometimes would do things that in real life might be beyond my capabilities, but i think if we talk about imagine, it is truly just in our minds…
many girls have “hard limits” and “soft limits” i think on “hard limits” well that makes sense, ther are some things some just wont do, my hard limits would include play with children or bloodsport among other things… but with soft limits, i think that is almost like saying… “Master, i dare you to make me do this…”
i think it is up to a Master to decide a girl’s limitations, if i trust a Master enough to surrender then why would i not trust him to know me well enough to know where my limitations lie. If it were up to me i would never have tried anything beyond the most mundane vanilla! pushing a girls limits is a way of exploring, finding new exciting things to try and do and living in that edgy place of excitement. if girl surrenders and submits to a Master, shouldnt he know her well enough to know what she can or cannot handle or do?
posted per Master Memnon
